The Twids' First Halloween

Okay, so it wasn't exactly your first Halloween, girls, but it was your first time trick-or-treating--and what a treat it was!! It didn't hurt that you two were the cutest little bugs I've ever laid eyes on--Julia, you were a ladybug, and Kate, you were a bumble bee. I thought for sure you would want to dress up as princesses since you are obsessed with all things princess, but you picked out your costumes and made it very clear that you wanted to be insects.

I don't know if I should be thanking that ginormous-headed exhibitionist (aka--Dora), but you two had an inhuman amount of enthusiasm for all things Halloween. Prior to yesterday's festivities, you had seen, several times over, a Halloween episode of Dora that more than explained what exactly was involved in soliciting candy from strangers. Preschool also provided some reinforcements, and you two were ready and raring to go.

Daddy was able to come home from work early, and we could not get you out of the door fast enough. One of the many strange things about Jersey is that there isn't a set time for Halloween. When we were kids, trick-or-treat was crammed into a two hour time frame, usually beginning right before sundown. Not so in Bergen County--here, it's basically a free for all that starts as soon as school lets out, and goes until (as far as I can tell) parents get tired of lugging their over-stimulated offspring around.

I had heard that downtown Westwood (which is basically one main drag, very similar to the Oxford's uptown area) had a pretty good trick-or-treat shindig, so we decided to check that out. Heavens to freaking betsy--it was rockin'! What an efficient system (which appealed to Mommy's super-anal-retentive-control-freak side)--all of the vendors participated and it was so.much.damn.fun.

You two were divas and Kate, you especially, had zero need for me and Daddy to help you out. I think you thought you were like 13.....you didn't want to hold hands and you would march your little bumblebee butt up to people without any hesitation before demanding your candy (which you did very sweetly). Julia, you were a bit shy in the beginning, but you quickly got the hang of it--so much so that anytime we came upon suckers, you made your wishes known. "I want red." If you were feeling gracious, you would add a please, but that didn't happen too often.

It was hilarious to watch the two of you go into some of these stores--particularly the jewelry stores and Shaw's Book Store. You were both fascinated by all the shiny sparkly jewelry and instead of asking for candy, you just wanted to walk around and look at all the diamonds and glittering fancy garb. I knew for sure you were my daughters when we walked into Shaw's and Kate, you let out the loudest "OH MY GOSH OH MY GOSH!" You immediately found your way to the kids' section and made yourself at home. Daddy had to remind you that we were there to get candy, but you just couldn't believe how many cool books there were to see.

After stocking up on candy, we made our way home, and quite belatedly, decided to carve our pumpkin. Daddy handled the carving and you two were mesmerized--as you can tell from the pictures. Watching you two was such a trip, and I have an entirely new appreciation for Halloween. You melted my heart about a hundred million times yesterday and I just want to gobble you up and revel in your deliciousness. You two are so amazingly cool and funny and I cannot believe how fast you're growing up.

Smooches.

What a great weekend!! Our dear friends (Aubrey, Ottis, and Cameron) trekked it out to Jersey to spend a few days with us. I hope I'm not just speaking for myself when I say that a great time was had by all. It was so nice to be able to spend quality time together. Aubrey and I always make it a point to hang out when I'm in Cincy, but the hubbies usually aren't with us, and we don't usually get a lot of time visiting with the kids. I feel like I finally got to know sweet Baby Cameron--he's the spitting image of his dad, and such a sweetie pie. He also still has that yummy baby smell and I couldn't get enough of his deliciousness. He's at such a fun age, although I do feel bad that Aubrey and O had to spend so much time shadowing him as he tried to maneuver the stairs!

One of the funniest parts of the weekend was Kate's creation of Ottis's new nickname--"other daddy." This is one of those times where you're seriously wishing you could get inside of her brain to figure out her thinking process. It's not like the girl has never been around other fathers--but for whatever reason, she decided that since Ottis is indeed a daddy, and he isn't HER daddy, he would thus be known as "other daddy."

There was a whole lot of over-indulgence while the Coates family was in town--lots of fatty food and lots (like crazy lots) of adult beverages. Aubrey and I took Saturday afternoon and evening off--we lunched, saw a great movie (Ghost Town, see it NOW if you haven't already), and then went out for apps and drinks. *SIGH*--how I miss my time with my girlfriends!! We had to go to New York (not the city, just the state) to see the movie, and go figure, I missed our exit on the way back to Jersey. Aubrey was quite gracious about the fact that our detour took us (almost) to the Catskills and ate into over, oh, like 2ish hours of our time! At least the autumnal foliage was out full force so the scenery (I hope?) made up for it!!

The maniac men took in the Bengals-Jets game on Sunday, and I'm not going to even get into the shenanigans that occurred. No need to revisit that drama--although I am glad they had fun. Truly, I am :). Scott doesn't get many opportunities to relax and do something he truly enjoys--like going to NFL games with friends. He got stuck taking me to the Browns game last year, and I'm quite sure he had more fun with Ottis than he did with me.

Saying goodbye to the Coates fam was bittersweet--it was so nice having them here. They're such an important part of our family and we miss them. I can't let myself dwell on just how much we miss them, or how much fun we had hanging with our Cincy crew, or the endless Trivial Pursuit games and the shit talking and the Cranium and the birthday parties and the cookouts and the bar-hopping and the Basco incident and the whispery "hi" phone call or the.......you get the point.

So, Aub, Ottis Other Daddy, if you're reading this, thank you so very, very much for spending the weekend in the 'wood--we LOVED having you here! You guys are a big part of the reason we miss Ohio so much and we're so touched that you came to the Garden State to play--smooches!

One of the virtues of being very young is that you don't let the facts get in the way of your imagination. ~Sam Levenson


Okay, so I have zero idea who Sam Levenson is, but find his words so fitting for something I've been spending a lot of time thinking about/noticing lately. Of course this is all due to me being lucky enough to witness the girls' creativity take flight--I dare anyone to tell me what's more inspiring than watching a young 'un tell these complicated stories that they fully believe to be true. Stories that are full of whimsy and possiblity and complete nonsense, told so vehemently and enthusiastically that you can't help but believe your daughter did, indeed, just see a kangaroo. On a rooftop. In New Jersey. (This happened on the way to preschool the other day, and Kate was very concerned about the kangaroo having to go to timeout--I'm glad she recognizes that playing on roofs is a big no-no).

In the past week alone, I've crawled out of the mole hole in our yard, Lovey has pooped several times and both girls have gone swimming. On the moon.

It's so totally cool to watch these little creatures, who I still consider helpless peanuts, engage in this imaginative play. Every time they play with their dolls, it cracks me up to hear them quoting ME and repeating every single one of my daily mantras. Despite all evidence to the contrary, they have indeed been hearing EVERYTHING I say. They may not be the best of the listeners, but they're damn good at regurgitating. Julia loves to have meals with her dolls and Lovey (and tell them that they must sit on their respective tushes), while Kate is often comforting her dolls, who are always crying (seriously, I think her babies need Prozac). Kate loves to tell me and Julia that her dolls are crying because they miss their mommy--this is immediately followed by declarations of "Mommy KAAATE, I the MOMMY, OKAY?" Like what, anyone's disagreeing?

The only downside to this display of creative brilliance is that I no longer am able to tell when the truth is being told. Specifically, when asked about the happenings at preschool, both girls will weave these tales about how so-and-so was in timeout for pushing Kate and then so-and-so bit Julia. Now, I know the biting thing isn't true b/c there would be an accident report from preschool, however, the pushing very well could have happened. Oh well, I'm pretty sure I would be notified if something substantial were to occur.

Kate and Scott both have ear infections right now, which Kate finds verrrrry cool. Since Scott's dx (last night), Kate has been prancing around saying "Daddy's ear is broken. JUST. LIKE. KATE. Yayyyyy, Daddy." Apparently, this is quite the accomplishment on Scott's part.

Should have some good pics to post next week. Our friends are coming to visit from Cincy today--Aubrey, Ottis, and Baby Cameron, who technically isn't a baby anymore. I just hope the girls don't terrorize Cameron!

THAT'S A Kiss

As of yesterday, our twoddlers (or "twids", as Mimi likes to say) officially hit the 2.5 year mark. To celebrate, although we certainly aren't really into the whole half birthday thing, I took the girls out to lunch after their gymnastics class. This was my first time venturing into a restaurant without backup. We had the best time! We went to the Westwood Pancake House, a diner that I used to frequent (by myself) when I was pregnant with the girls. It's right across the street from my ob's office, and I can remember barely being able to squeeze into a booth towards the end of my pregnancy. The girls were so well-behaved, and I of course, was oh so proud. It was almost as nice as lunching with my lady friends....we had real conversations! Of course, our conversations mostly consisted of talking about the obvious--like, the ketchup in the bottle is red, and how chocolate milk is just so yummy. But, it was fun, and it was really precious to see how darling and well-mannered the girls can be.

We had a fab weekend--weekends are always great because Daddy's home and it makes life so much easier on me. Even if he is as messy as the monkeys :). On Saturday night, we went to the Eustic's house for dinner, or "Lisapete" as the girls call them. Pete's sister Cheryl, her hubby and their daughter Riley were also there. Riley is a few months younger than the girls and so the girls were happy to have a new partner in crime. We both love watching them interact with other kids their age. At one point, the three girls were just running around the first floor in a loop, and it was hilarious--it was like watching a high-energy game of "Simon Says" as they sped around mimicing each other. Riley did try to bite Julia's cheek when we were saying goodbye, but we played it off and managed to do a satisfactory job of convincing Jules that Riley was just giving her a really sloppy kiss.

Kate has a new game that I absolutely adore--I like to call it "That's a Kiss." It's quite simple--she comes up to me, asks if I want a kiss, and when I lean in lips all a-puckered, the game begins. She leans in with the fake-out, lips pursed, and opens her mouth at the last minute, just in time to slobber all over my face. Fake-out kiss is followed up by Kate proclaiming, "that's a kiss, nooooooo, that's NOT a kiss." This is repeated until she finally ends up giving me a real smooch. She has a second variation of the game where kisses are substituted for hugs, and I freaking love it!! When she does deliver the real deal, she gets so rambunctiously excited and has to yell "that's a kiss/hug" as loud as possible. It.doesn't.get.old. Especially because she often sounds like she's speaking in some weird hybrid comprised of a Jerseyish British accent. Try and imagine THAT one if you can!

We have a super-busy week this week, which is good because Scott's in California right now. Between preschool, playdates, gymnastics and the playground, time should fly.

I know there's something I'm forgetting, but I've got to go--The Biggest Loser starts in five minutes and I can't miss it! Thank goodness the fall line-up is back in swing :).

As I sit down to type, I'm again flummoxed by the fact that I can't seem to post more than once a month....this is a problem. So, I think I'm going to make Monday's my new official blogging day......maybe a schedule will make me a better blogger....we shall see.



So, monkeys, wow......in just three days you will be 2.5 years old! My little preschoolers are getting old :). And big--we were at the doc's office recently, and Julia weighed in at 25lbs., while Kate--you behemoth babe, weighed in at 28.5lbs. This is the first time in your lives that there has been more than a one-pound differential between the two of you. Up until recently, Kate, you've never been more than 3/4-1 lb. heavier than Julia. Looks like you hit a growth spurt, my love--not surprising though, considering that your dresses were getting shockingly shorter as the summer came to an end (which I thought was adorable--you won't be able to get away with that much longer). You guys are just now able to wear 2T bottoms--you need the length, for sure, but man--we have to steer clear of pants/skirts that don't have adjustable waists. Thank gawd 2T is when most retailers decide to include those handy-dandy buttony things so we can keep those pants up! I can't believe how skinny minny you guys are--you have no tummies or waists!



You two have been in preschool for almost a month now, and you are loving it. You have yet to cry during drop-off, which has been wonderful, but part of me does wonder if I should feel bad that you can't wait to walk into your classroom and leave me all by my lonesome? Kidding--it's so sad to watch some of these moms whose kids are struggling with the whole separation issue....I'm really not sure who it's harder on, the moms or their babes.



Your teachers are Miss Mohr and Miss Chomiak (pronounced Ko-mee-aak), and you.are.in.love. You are constantly asking, on your days off, where your teachers are, and when you're going to see them. I especially love that even though you know they are two people, whenever you refer to them, they become one--"Miss Mohr Chomiak". It's very reminiscent of cousin Livvy and what she would do with "Brosini Fehr". I'm so glad we decided to sign you up for school--you two are thriving and it melts my heart to see how happy you are. I love waiting to pick you up with the other mom's--we all stand in the hall gathered around the closed door, and listen to you talk. Julia, you surprised the daylights out of me on your first day there--for some reason, I thought you would be a bit shyer than Kate, and I won't forget eavesdropping in the hall, and how you were just talking a mile a minute. Miss Mohr Chomiak :) would ask a question and you would be the first to shout, and I do meant shout, out the answer. Talk about Mommy being guilty of Mommy Pride!



Daddy and I are really enjoying watching your relationship with one another blossom. You two still fight, much more than we would like, but you are definitely enjoying one another so much more than you ever have. I could listen to the two of you (when you're not fighting) talk to one another for hours and days and weeks on end. You love to play games together, even though you aren't actually, ya know, playing GAMES. You're just playing......you both just love to say "I play games with (insert name here). Kate, the way you continue to look out for Julia, especially when she's crying, just crushes me. Who would have thought that at 2.5 years old you would be more compassionate than many adults I know. It isn't unusual for you to bring Julia her lovey, or a drink when she's hurt, and you particularly love to offer her hugs and kisses. Sometimes she even accepts!



We were getting ready for school the other morning, which is not an easy task.......I swear, for loving preschool as much as you do, you sure make it a total pain in the patoot for me to get you guys out the door. Anyway, Kate, I dressed you first, and Julia, you walked over to Kate and got sooooo close to her face (the way you do when you're telling Daddy about your day--you seem to think we're all a bit deaf). You put your hand on Kate's shoulder while crouching down and said "wow, Kaaaate, you soooo bootiful, you willy pwitty today." Stomach stabbing pangs of love, hello! What an angel you are.

Since I last posted a lot of cool things have happened.....Kate, you've peed in the potty three times now--way to go Tatie-T! Julia, you are now correctly pronouncing words like ladybug and butterfly, which I know is good, but I do admit, I miss leakybugs and bubbaflies. Both of you are getting closer to correctly pronouncing Julia's name--since you started talking, we've gone from Buggy to Gia to the latest, Jooo-eeea-ah. It was so funny, Kate, the day you figured it out. We were driving home from Wee Play, and the entire 20 minutes, you sat in the back of the car saying "Joooeeeah" over and over.andover.andoverrrrr. It was hilarious.

You two are just so funny (when you're not whining or fighting--there's been a LOT of that too, but I don't want to focus on that right now). Kate, we've been call you various versions of Potato-derived monikers since you were born (Taters, Tash, Tatie-T, etc), and you've recently decided that it's ONLY okay for ME to call you Tatie-T if Daddy's around. We were driving home from somewhere the other day, playing the "on the waaaay" game, and you told me "Mommy, no call Tatie-T, I name Kate." This was followed by "Mommy, don't call Cinda-ILLA, it name Cinder-elllla." You, my dear, were the one who started the Cinda-Illla craze, but apparently, we all need to be as mature and articulate as you and pronounce things the right way.

Julia, you are such a polite little wonder--you love to say "thank you" as you should when the situation calls for it, but what cracks us up, is the way you follow your thanks with "wah welcome". Never mind that somebody else should be giving you the wah welcomes. You are still so extreme with your moods--and when you're happy, you are truly a ray of effusive sunlight and giggles. You laugh so easily, and you often laugh for no reason at all. You spend so much time singing, and we're so impressed with your ability to carry a tune.....we actually tried to videotape you over the weekend, but you weren't really having it.

I need to wrap this up as I've gone on long enough. You two are giving me a run for my money, but I am oh so in love with you.

The best things in life start with "B"......

Seriously, I never realized (but now do, thanks to Kate and Julia) how many of my favorite things start with the letter "b". The list includes, but of course isn't limited to, beaches, babies, bubbles, baths, bubbles in the bath, brownies, butterflies, books....well, you get the point. And to be fair--a lot of those aforementioned favorite aren't really my favorites, rather, they're the girls'. We were outside yesterday, and the girls were freaking out b/c they wanted to go back to the beach. Julia also wanted the bubbaflies to go to the beach, along with Lovey and bubbles. I clearly have too much time on my hands, as my mind started to wander and I had the epiphany that the girls and I really dig things that start with the letter "b". Anyway, I don't know why I felt the need to share, but there you go.

We spent all of last week at the shore with Scott's parents. So. Much. Fun. Seriously, it was a blast--not many people are lucky enough to have in-laws that they can spend a week with and then be disappointed that that week flew by! We didn't have the best of weather, but it didn't even matter. The girls were beyond thrilled to be hang out with their grandparents, and it's been a rough adjustment for all of us to be back in the real world.

Bama (aka, Scott's mom) introduced Julia to sponge rollers, or "roaders", in Julia-speak. Julia was so enthralled with the roaders, that she insisted on wearing them. In public. To the zoo. To say we received some strange looks would be an understatement. Luckily, all the women we encountered were generous with the knowing smiles, and the "been there, done that" comments. Some battles just aren't worth fighting, especially when your opponent is a willful and headstrong two and a half year old. And, as Pat/Bama/Scott's mom, pointed out, Julia's hair put a lot of smiles on the faces of strangers.

The girls loved the zoo. Julia loved it so much that as soon as we saw the bears, she started screaming. Our little fearless wonder wanted to "go play yard with bear"--she was literally trying to jump the fence to get to the caged area. Crazy monkey!

Kate wasn't as interested in watching the animals--mainly b/c a lot of the zoo is in this heavily wooded area, and to see the animals, you walk on this never-ending (and wide) wooden bridge. Kate likes to run and was enjoying spazzing out in all that open space. She surprised us on the way to the zoo by asking if we would see flamingoes. Umm, I didn't even know that she knew what a flamingo was. Since I had no idea whether or not the 'mingoes would be there, I told her that they wouldn't. Boy was she psyched to find out Mommy was wrong--I'm not sure I've ever seen her so happy.

There were so many precious moments (barf, can't believe I just said that as I HATE the Hallmark figurines that go by the same name) during the week. It's hard to know which ones to write down here, or which ones to store away.

The one that sticks out the most in my mind, though, happened one night at dinner. The adults were eating while the girls played and Scott's parents were making a toast to vacation. Scott piped in with a toast to Kate and Julia, and was quickly interrupted by Kate yelling "yay, Bama Grandpa, yay, Grandpa David!" Her timing was impeccable, and what was particularly sweet was that prior to her contribution, she had never called Scott's dad anything other than "Grandpa." She obviously picked up on Pat calling Dave by his first name, and it was soooo sweet.

The girls loved the beach--the water was almost warm, still a bit chilly, but warm enough that you did eventually get used to it without feeling like your extremities were going numb. Kate was fascinated and disgusted by the seaweed, and the first time she saw it, thought it was cat puke and asked me to clean it up. By the end of the trip, she decided she liked seaweed and would run up and down the water's edge looking for seaweed to talk to. Did I mention she never stops talking :) ?

Our travels are coming to a halt for now, but Mimi (my mom) will be out here in 2.5 weeks--yay! She managed to time her visit to coincide with the girls' first week of school which will be perfect--I may need the emotional support!

Heart hug, off to clean.

TIDBITS........

I have to rush through this post as I'm supposed to be getting ready to go out of town......but there are some things I need to write down so my already horrid memory doesn't forget just how sweet life can be. When I return from vacay, perhaps I'll try and organize these "thoughts" in a more mannerly fashion, but, eh....I doubt it!

*The girls are definitely digging being sisters these days....that's not to say they don't fight, but there has been a lot of positive play time going on. This leads to some really cute moments that make me get that melty-gushy feeling. For instance, we were swimming the other day, and Julia was talking about her purple finger (which Kate slammed the door on about 3 wks. ago). She loves to talk about her boo-boo, and mentions it to me at least 100x a day. Besides wanting the world to know her fingernail is, indeed, purple, she also wants to talk about how "door shut my finger", and how much it hurt. During this conversation in the pool, Julia looked up at me and said "kiss it all better." I assumed she wanted, me, the irreplacable Mommy, to kiss it all better (hell, we even have a song about kissing it all better). Nope, I got the toddler look of death from her as I tried to lean in for a smooch. At the top of her surprisingly mighty lungs, she yelled, "NO MOMMY KISS!! I want KAAAATE kiss better!" Luckily, Kate was in an obliging mood and all ended well.

*The same day, Kate decided that she needed a hug from Julia. Now Julia isn't as forthcoming with the cuddles as Kate, so I was a bit worried when Kate started bothering Julia with her non-stop, "Gia, hug Kate? Gia, hug Kate." Julia gave Kate a very sweet, and quite long hug, and then the shit hit the fan. Kate decided that since that first hug was so great, she needed another. And another. And....yeah, you get the drift. All hell broke loose as Kate chased Julia around the yard screaming for more hugs, and Julia screamed "leave Gia lone Kate" over, and over, and over. Kate would not be distracted and I seriously couldn't even find any words as she proceeded to have one of the most colossal meltdowns I have ever seen her have. Yikes.

*The following is a conversation that I had with the girls this week while driving home from the sitter.

Me: So, Julia, I heard you were crying a lot for Michelle this morning.

Julia: Yes. Buggy B crynin.

M: Why were you crying, Bug?

J: I sad.

M: But why were you sad sweetie?

Kate: Mommy, Gia crynin she miss Karen. Mommy Karen. Mommy, YOU be Karen. Yes?

*I'm so bad about keeping up with the girls' baby books (&, ahem, this blog), but I am so entertained by some of the words Julia uses--mainly b/c of her super-sweet girly voice, but also because of the typical mispronunciations that occur as she tries to figure it all out. Some of my current faves include: leakybug (ladybug), bubbafly (butterfly), cool (pool, as in "go simmin in new cool, mommy"), fider (spider), oppodots (opposites), and helipocter (self-explanatory, no?). My all-time fave, which actually isn't that new is "I carry you", which clearly translates to "pick me up".

*Time outs continue to be a success although there are still plenty of tantrums going on. Julia has gotten much better about apologizing, which she never used to do. Kate still spends a heck of a lot more time in time-out than Julia, but Julia will typically keep her sister company while she's serving her sentence.

I know there's so much more, but these are some of my faves. We're off to the shore for a week w/Scott's folks, so I won't be near a computer......hoping to get loads of good pics of our sugars to share when we return.

Heart hug.

Okay, if I've said it once, I've said it a million times.....I really wish somebody would tell me when my babies stopped being babies. How did I miss it? I'm only with them every waking moment so it's a bit frightening that such a monumental transition occurred without me really noticing. I mean, of course, I noticed things.....but still.

First, they figured out how to get up and down the stairs by themselves. Next it was opening and shutting doors, and now, they are practically dressing themselves, singing the ABC song, and counting to 10 (leaving out a number here and there). They are almost at the point where they no longer fit perfectly into my arms. They've grown, for pete's sake. Clearly I knew this was to be expected, but man, I didn't notice how tall they had become until they insisted on wearing their Easter dresses the other day. The dresses were just the slightest fraction too short, and I felt a fleeting but piercing pain. My helpless lil' babes are not so helpless anymore *sniff, sniff*.

The highlights of our week included the girls' first trip to Story Time at our town library.....they were thrilled to see so many books in one place, as evidenced by Kate trying to pull every single book in reaching distance off the shelf. They didn't sit so well during the actual reading of the stories, and I was quite dismayed to hear Kate shout at me (while I was at the water fountain):

"Mommy, I have this for you, I need new diaper."

Um, yeah, okay. Nice to see that lil' Miss Thing had pulled off her diaper and was swinging it in the air as she strutted over to me. Lucky for me there were no scathing glances/remarks as everyone turned to witness the spectacle. Yikes.

Clearly, potty training isn't going well. Actually, we haven't even started potty training, although I don't know why. The girls sit on the potty every single day, but have yet to produce any, um, results. They are quick to tell me when they need to be changed, but their kidneys and bowels are apparently incapable of action once their tushes hit the toilet.

We have two chatty kathies on our hands, and we are really enjoying the daily oratories of both girls. Kate is constantly giving me a running dialogue on what we are doing, what she wants to be doing, etc. She takes it one step further by answering any and all questions posed to other people, especially Julia. It's a little too cute when I make whatever meal for them, and Kate, upon receiving her food, rewards me with a "good job, Mommy." If she's feeling particularly sweet, I even get a "thank you."

Julia makes everything into a song. If we're going to the park, she starts singing about the park. And the slides. And the swings. She loves to sing. Most of her songs are sung to the melody (harmony?) of "Twinkle, Twinkle", but she's just started branching out this week and it's soooo sweet (esp. since she has such a delicate girly-voice).

We have a lot of exciting events coming up--friends from CO visiting this week (which includes Scott taking an entire day off work, the girls going to the sitters, and the adults carousing around NYC--woo hoo), a trip to the shore with Scott's parents, Mimi (my mom) is coming out for a week, and Aubrey, Ottis, and Cam are coming in October.

The only downer there is that I don't have any scheduled sister time coming up. And in case you're confused, the sisters I am referring to are myself and Sara (not K & J). I need to try and figure something out so I can see her, as there is no way in h.e.l.l. that I can wait until the holidays to see Sarie and her family. Not cool. Ugh, the only thing really holding me back from a trip "home" is the fact that K & J's nursery school doesn't prorate. And we all know I need at least 2 weeks every time I go home.

Getting too tired to focus, must try and rest these weary bones. Thank you Nitin, my calves and shoulders are killing me from last night's class.

Heart hug.

P.S. Hoping to update and add pics before I turn 40.

P.S.S. The Mighty Panini is not so freaking mighty. They ran out of meat when Scott when to pick up our lunch. Seriously, that's like a pizza place running out of cheese. I give the place 2 months.

HAPPY 60th BIRTHDAY, DAD!!

I would typically be on the phone with my dad right about now, trying to wish him a happy one, but, I was just informed by my sister that he's behind the wheel right now. Cell phones and my dad don't mix in general, but I know, as a Leonard, that "yapping and driving" is even more of a no-no. My folks spent the week in Chicago, revisiting their roots, and they chose today to drive back--not how I would want to spend such a significant birthday, but hey, what do I know?

Anyway, my dad doesn't even read my blog (at least to my knowledge), but I'm thinking about him and missing him today--I'm so glad we had the party for him because it does help ease the guilt I feel about not being with him on his actual birthday. I mean, seriously, he's kinda getting old, ya know :) ?

He knows how much I love him, so instead of doing what I would usually do--writing a sappy tribute of sorts (which, ahem, was already done/delivered at his party), I'll keep it simple. Happy Birthday, Dad--you're the best and I love and miss you tremendously!

So, the girls........ah, yes, these girls of ours......where do I start? They are a mischevious and wild pair, and they are constantly challenging and delighting us. They seem so much older than 27 months--especially when they say things like "go away, Mommy." That's one of their newest commands, typically reserved for those frequent moments when they are trying to do something they shouldn't be doing.

Both girls have developed incredibly strong opinions. About everything. But, especially about what they will and won't wear. I'm a bit worried about what this will mean for the future. Both girls want to wear dresses. All. The. Time. That includes bedtime. Julia prefers to wear her dresses with a skirt underneath. She's very particular that one. When she goes into fashionista mode with her dress/skirt ensemble, she's adamant that at least 2 inches of the skirt be showing beneath the hem of the dress. This often entails her wearing her skirt below her tush. And all H.e.L.l breaks loose if everything isn't just so. Aye aye aye. I don't understand where they are getting this, as I have NEVER liked wearing skirts or dresses. EVER. Between the dress issue and the obsession with shoes, I have a feeling Scott and I are going to be fighting a long, uphill, and expensive battle when it comes to outfitting our offspring.

I'm pretty psyched because I finally found a pre-preschool program for the girls that is, at least right now, seeming pretty ideal. It's actually a new part of the YWCA's program--this will be their first year running a program for 2 year olds (and the girls don't have to be potty-trained, major bonus!). I went and visited the facility (it's held at a church) and met the two teachers, and it was love at first sight. I hope it isn't presumptuous of me to say this (knock on wood), but I really think the girls are going to thrive there. They are both so hungry for knowledge and new experiences and I don't know that I'm giving them enough in that department. I certainly try, but, who knows......

Okay, must run as Julia is insisting on taking a bath........

Hoping to post pics soon!

Heart hug.

Wow, I cannot believe it's been months, literally, months, since my last post--shall we pause while I hang my head in shame?!

Quick recap of where we've been the past few months......

We took our yearly pilgrimage to the Outer Banks in May, and it was a blast! We spent a week in Duck at a gorgeous house with my side of the family. We had beautiful weather for the most part, and the girls loved spending time with their cousins!

Half of June was spent in Ohio--we started out with a weekend in Cleveland to celebrate Scott's parent's 40th wedding anniversary--WOW!!! We had a lovely party for them and it was really special to be able to celebrate such a significant milestone in their lives. We're both so lucky to have parents that are still together and still in love after decades and decades of marriage!

We then headed down to West Chester and split our time between my sister's house and my parent's house. The girls attended camp with Jack (my gorgeous 2.5 year old nephew), and they loved it! Their hero worship of Olivia continues, and it was so precious to watch the four kids interact and play. Olivia continues to melt my heart with her nurturing manner--she is so good with all of the kids, and I only wish we lived closer so Kate and Julia could spend more time with Livvy and Jack.

Our trip to Ohio ended with a surprise birthday party for my dad, who turns 60 next week (holy shit, Dad!). It was a GREAT party, and I think my dad was truly surprised.

The girls, of course, are starting to wake up from their nap, so I should run. I went and visited a possible preschool this morning, and it was a HUGE disappointment--that's really a whole 'nother post, though. So, it's back to the drawing board in that area.

The girls are talking so much I can't believe it--Kate almost always speaks in sentences, and Julia isn't far behind. They continue to delight and amaze Scott and I, and we had a pretty significant "proud parent" moment this weekend when we took them to a friend's house for dinner. They were perfect little ladies and I was so impressed with the way they conducted themselves.

Of course, my ego was put in check by their behavior the past two days--it's whine central station here. They have been fighting a lot and we've had more time outs in the past two days than I could have possibly imagined.

Must run, but if anyone's still reading, just wanted to a quick post to let you know that I am somewhat trying to maintain this blog!

Heart hug!

Quick--look out your windows......do you see the pigs flying??? They're flying here in Jersey--otherwise I wouldn't be posting again so soon :)!! Lesley, you were right!!!

Since I have the day off from mommy duty, courtesy of our beloved sitter Michelle, I thought I better hurry up and post the girls' birthday letters before it gets relegated to my neverending "to do" list. Feel free to skip over them, as I cannot make any promises regarding their entertainment value!

My dearest Katie-Kat,
Happy belated second birthday, my sweet! I cannot believe that you are already two--it seems impossible that you are no longer a helpless lil' babe. You walk (and run, hop, and jump) and you are talking up a storm--when did you stop being a baby? How did I miss that transition?

I do believe that you've inherited my gift of gab, and I love watching you get so excited about learning new words and trying to figure out how to put sentences together. Your communication skills are mind-boggling to me. Perhaps every new parent feels this way, but it amazes me to witness your vocabulary expanding by such ginormous leaps and bounds.

You are such an affectionate little girl--whether we are leaving the house, or just going upstairs for a night-night, you are constantly saying goodbye to your various toys and random household objects. It's so adorable to pull out of the driveway, and listen to you shriek "bye home, bye home." I cherish the way you will, seemingly out of the blue, decide that we should hug--I wish I could freeze those moments. Your hugs have a way of making all the stresses of life fall to the wayside. I can't think of anything sweeter than the way you come up to me and say, "Mommy, hug, hug Kate" with your arms open wide. It melts my heart.

You're such a nurturing "older" sister--you certainly have your moments, but again, it's so touching to see how you are always looking out for Julia. You are constantly bringing her snacks, toys, and of course, Lovey. There have been a few mornings lately where we've let Julia sleep a bit later than you. While I really enjoy getting some one-on-one time with you, you've got about a 10-minute threshold before you start missing your sister and start yelling "Buggie, Buggie." I hope you will always look out for her the way that you do now, just as I hope she will do the same for you.

You also, much to my dismay, seem to have inherited my temper.......there is absolutely no middle ground with you, and you wear your heart on your sleeve. We've had a lot of time-outs lately, but you are really responding well to our new "system." One of your favorite things to do when you get into trouble is to try and cute your way out of time out--meaning, before time out is over, you will look at me with a pathetically forlorn expression and either start asking me for hugs, or you'll try to climb in my lap. I cannot tell you how hard it is for me to maintain my composure and not start laughing. This discipline stuff is hard, although I know it will take you many, many years to really understand that.

You are currently in love with Dora & Diego, Elmo, slides, snacks, Thomas, jumping, and hopping. You love to go over our lists of necessities whenever we switch activities. Whenever we get ready to leave the house, you have to tell us "shoes, socks, coat, walk, beep-beep, sippy." Quite efficient with communicating your thoughts, I'd say.

I am so in love with you, my child, and I still am in awe that I am lucky enough to be your mommy. Not a day goes by that I don't thank the powers that be for giving your daddy and I such a wonderful and precious gift.

I love you Taties,
Mommy

My Darling Julia,
Oh my sweet lil' bug, happy second birthday! I can't believe that you're two!! The time is going by much too fast for my liking, and I cannot get over how much you have changed since your baby days.

You are such a joyous and delightful child--what a world of difference from the baby who cried seemingly non-stop the first 10 months of her life! You almost always have a smile on your face (and what a smile it is, with those scrumptious dimples you got from your daddy), and it doesn't take much to make you laugh. You almost always wake up happy, and I get so excited walking into your room in the morning, because I love the way you pop up in your crib and say "Hiiiiiiii, Mommy." It never gets old!!

I worry that Daddy and I have created a bit of identity confusion for you--while you are certainly aware that your name is indeed Julia, you've become so accustomed to us (esp. Kate) calling you "Buggie" that you respond to that more often than you do your given name. We've also had a couple of people suggest that we should cease calling you by your nickname b/c of the, ahem, "long-term implications".........I'm sure that they worry you will be teased on the playground at school, but to us, you are our sweet and precious Bug. No matter what that word means to others, for us, it holds a lot of affection and love.

Daddy and I keep referring to you as our little engineer. Your ability to become so singularly focused, especially when it comes to trying to figure out how things work, is astounding. One of your favorite things to do, and this is fairly new, is to line things up. Over the past week, you've worked very hard to line up rolls of paper towels, soup cans, and your toy balls. Your precision is spot-on, and you get very, very upset, if things aren't exactly right. You want things just so, and being a bit of a control freak, I can very much relate to your desire.

You remind me sooooo much of Daddy--besides looking so much like him, you have his same need to work and work at something until you find a way, your own way, to figure it out. You are one determined child and you have such a love of learning! You get so excited when you learn something new, and once you figure something out, you like to do it over and over and over again (aka "the repeat game")--which is pretty hilarious to watch. Whether it's saying a new word, or pushing the "eject" button on the dvd player, you keep on keepin' on.

You and I have a special game that we play, and I try to get you to play it with me at least 5 (or 100) times a day. It isn't even really a game, but it's one of my favorite things to do with you. And typing it out, I know it will sound so simple and silly, but I love it. I start by saying "Juuulia, Juuulia." And then you look at me, and you always smile while saying "Mahhhmmmyyy, Mahhhmmmyyy." See, it sounds so lame, but the look on your face and the tone in your voice when you say it are so full of love and adoration that I can't help but feel weak in the knees.

You're also proving to be quite musical--I do suspect that you may be a bit gifted in this area (hee hee). You do have a talent for picking up the melody of a song after hearing it only once. Your favorites right now are "ABC", "Twinkle, Twinkle", and "Dora" (to which you now make up your own lyrics). The sweetest is the way you sing "Twinkle, Twinkle" and always leave out "the world"---the Julia version includes the line, "up up up so hiiiiiigh."

My sweet, sweet Julia Grace--what a gift it is to have you for my daughter. You're my precious lil' pixie and I adore you to pieces.

All My Love,
Mommy